Dazzler !!!!


Recently Dazzler came up to me… and said you have dedicated no blog to me…… The quick response mechanism in me said but I have given you a nick name which no has (I think at least) …..

So this is a blog dedicated to her….!!!!!!!!!

A friendship which began almost 3 years ago….. Never thought I would be close to someone as I am to her…… Throughout childhood for every year I had one good friend ……. And with every year the friend was new….. So I can safely assume that I am still not bored with the relationship I share with her…… Why this has happened???? I cannot tell but am glad that I have a friend and a friendship I truly cherish….

Over the 3 years I have had many and many conversations and incidents with Dazzler……
The tea conversations at Lemon Tree Pune would be something I remember most of the time as after graduating from college…….. The conversations varied from college life and her emotional problems…… I think problems is the wrong word… Lets say situations...Emotional Situations…. Most of the times I would land up cheering her up and defending men ……. Most of the times I would land trying to figure her mind out….…… She has a complex side to her….which I must admit am still figuring out till date… Probably why I am still friends with her…. But our conversations were never complex… Our freedom to say whatever we want is the spark in our conversations…. Honesty is something I really appreciate and I see it her eyes….

Coming to some of the funny moments………. I remember outside sweetie stores….. She was having a packet of Tiger biscuits …. While having the biscuits the crumbs she would get rid of just like ash from a cigarette…...Yes I do enjoy pulling her leg….!!!!!

December 18th 2006 will be a day I will not forget for a very long time……. I was in mumbai on a college assignment and she was in mumbai to meet her future boy friend…...And we spend the day together…….. I spoilt my phone as a chocolate melted in my pocket ….. We enjoyed good wine at Taj Lands End…. A walk near the Arabian Sea …… and a candid question if not the one you like do I have a chance…??? I have that answer now…….

We did have our share of mis-understandings ….. 2007 was a rough year….for her as well as for me….. I did stop talking to her at one point….. But she had the courage to talk to me about why I was avoiding her……...I had become a loner for a while….. So was keeping to myself…… I was watching a game of basket ball from the college steps and had been avoiding her call since morning…….It was around 9:30 in the evening when she called again….I said let me pick up …..and say that I do not wanna talk to you…..But I never did….Instead I told her my location….She came and sat next to me…. And asked me what was wrong…..I just had a lump in my throat…..And I said what I had to say about how she had behaved and how some other people who I really liked had behaved….She heard me out and I still remember the words clearly…. ‘I do not deserve your friendship’. This struck me and hit me hard……. Should I let bygones be bygones….. I am a much happier man today…….

Thank you for walking into my life!!!!!!!